"If there were PhD's to be given on the subject of emotional abuse, Natalie Hoffman would have earned her's ten times over. Natalie is remarkably knowledgeable and character-savvy when it comes to understanding the soul-death that occurs during the terror of emotional abuse. Further, she brings the element of healing to the table as well. Any woman who questions herself while sensing deep, unrecognizable pain in her marriage should read Is it Me?" ~ Megan Cox, MAR Pastoral Counseling, Founder of Give Her Wings, Inc.
“I wish I'd had this book ten years ago. It summarizes very well what took me several months with a life coach to see. This book validated my experiences and led me to a new life of freedom I didn’t think was possible.” Ann Schell
“Natalie Hoffman has created a vitamin-packed inoculation against the patriarchal lies and spiritual abuses which threaten to overwhelm a woman struggling to get free from her abusive spouse.” Cherilyn Clough, Author of Little Red Survivor Blog
“I was told the gaping hole of emptiness and pain I felt in my marriage was my burden to carry forever. Natalie’s penetrating, grace-filled words reshaped my perspective. I moved from shame-laden fear to owning my role in creating a future free from abuse and filled with joyful potential. I’m crazy excited to give this book to my friends who need it too.” Alaine Edmondson
“After reading this book it was clear to me that what I went through in my former marriage was truly abusive. I am now in the healing stage, and this book has given me hope to know that I can truly live free in Jesus’ love and care. Wonderful, life changing book for the confused Christian woman like I was.” Lynn Searl
“Natalie’s book empowered me with specific tools to clear away the brain fog and give me strength to make necessary changes in my life. Now I’m using this book to help others find freedom from the dysfunction and chaos and help them grow into all that God has called them to be.” Amy Jones
"For over 34 years I felt helpless and hopeless in my marriage. There were days I wanted to die to escape the craziness! Like many Christian women, I was taught it was my duty to submit to anything dealt me. Through Natalie’s book I have learned some truths that helped me escape and realize how much God truly loves me. Praise the Lord, Natalie is setting the record straight!" Kelley Denver
“Finally, someone knows my life and the hell that I’ve gone through. Prepare to cry and be set on a new journey of finding yourself in Christ as a beautiful and wonderfully made creation. Thank you Natalie for finding your voice and putting it into words for those who have no voice." Kasey Eastman
"I was so confused and hopeless about why nothing I ever did made a difference in my marriage. This book flipped that paradigm, completely changing the way I viewed myself, viewed God, viewed my husband, and viewed my church community. Now I get to live in the truth and the love and grace of Jesus is sweeter than ever." Abigail Harden
Natalie Hoffman is a writer and life coach for women of faith in destructive relationships. She offers educational courses and group mentoring through Flying Free, her private support community. Learn more at flyingfreenow.com.
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